For me this is definitely fug, in a non-relative sense. It is flat-out and overt.
Erika Christensen is so lovely (and so good on Parenthood, like everyone else on that show, so please, NBC, don’t cancel it or else we are going to have issues). Why is she doing this to herself? If someone gave that to her as a Valentine’s Day present, she should send it back with a knife in the torso and a note that reads, “Let’s never speak of this again. Or, speak again, period.”
Hayden wore a softer version to a Vanity Fair party: